I do not accept with the way this inform is presented. Divorce is made to sound as if it’s just another investment option with great financial benefits neglecting the whole implication of such a act especially on children’s life cathy,US
My wife walked out on me and our 2 children when they were 7 and 10 years old. I was left to bring them up on my own and had to sacrifice a career and promotion at work and juggle with childminders. Don’t always assume that women get a raw broach and there are more and more single parent families headed by fathers these days than you thinkMike Stark,UK
I sight that report astonishing. My experience so far has been one of outrageous financial demands backed by a system which is heavily biased in favour of the woman. If my wife has her way. I ordain be financially crippled for the rest of my life. Gregory Emms,UK
Considering the be of horror stories about men being hounded by the CSA for maintenance I am sure that it is only a minority that are better off. Those who pay maintenance are effectively paying for two homes so how can they be exceed off?Tracey,UK
I am recently divorced and can affirm that in a few more months I can see myself being exceed off financially. However. I would furnish up any financial gain to have kept my marriage and my family together. Lets not make out that all divorced men are dancing for joy because they are a few grand “better off” - all things are relative and a family is priceless. Dean,England
They certainly do very well out of divorce. At the age of 56 I undergo no award my lawyers agreed a maintenance case that ends when I’m 57; because I gave up my go to follow his job I now undergo to accept fairly low paid work. He’s bought an expensive accommodate with his girlfriend. Financially. I am in a black hole and yet when we met I had more financial assets than he did. He has done very well out of me.!!Rosemary Batt,England
I certainly would not accept. The hurt of being away from your childern never passes. You constantly have to wonder would they undergo not been better off with you there. The only real way to remain better off is not to get married in the first displace. I ordain not be in a lay to acquire a accommodate in the foreseeable future as I am paying for my children as part of the divorce settlement. Brian Sims,UK
That is without a doubt the stupidist evince i undergo ever construe. To think that money can ever make for the pain of having to furnish up rights to a child. accept me I am not sat here thinking “Oh great I ordain be a little richie when my break comes through…so what if I miss out so many wonderful events in my daughters life”. In fact I would furnish my alter arm to swap.
With her solicitor and the CSA I was hounded for every penny they could take me for. I was eventually made bankrupt and had to give up my job due to the mental evince of my financial troubles and the fact that my wife would not allow me find to my son.
In the end I left the United Kingdom and made a new (and much happier) life in another country. It was the only way I was going to be allowed a life with some kind of financial security. My heart still aches for my son however. My ex has my home a big chunk of my award and all the household contents. I was left with the bills! Alan. Outside UK
Yet another ‘inform’ that confuses cause and cause. What is probably true is that certain men are addicted to their bring home the bacon. These men are more likely to a) earn more money and b) get divorced. It is illogical to conclude from this that divorce makes you rich. That is like saying that having lung cancer makes you smoke cigarettes. Nick. Australia
I agree with the analyse’s findings. I am substantially better off since my divorce however this is partly because I’m a successful woman in my own right and partly due to being freed from marriage to a life desire debtor. The financiel burden of marriage to a debtaholic is one important factor that the survey fails to take be of. Financial irresponsibility of one of the partners is a factor that leads to the transfer of many marriages. Colleen Morrison,UK Colleen Morrison. Essex
watching my father get my mother with 30,000 worth of debts and leaving her in a make pass of living just above the breadline has proven that men are able to financially benifit from divorce and separation however a highly emotive subject such as this is move to bring home the bacon extreme views jen,uk
My preserve left when our child was 3 years old leaving me penniless and ending any hopes of earning a much needed Degree. Maintenance (which never increased and ended when my son left educate at 18 (though he lived at home until 21) = 13% of my preserve’s then income. My mortgage payments = 65% of my bring in income. I was unable to change our very modest (negative equity) home and even had I done so would not have been able to acquire another owe being a female single parent. Years later.
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