There’s no such thing as too much of a good thing especially when it comes to sex. Conversely sex can also cause more arguments complaints and grudges than almost any other issue. Fortunately bestselling author and sexpert Tracey Cox is on hand to make your sex life as good as it can be. Here she shares simple fixes for the most common mistakes women make in the bedroom.…
(Bantam. 2007) the latest of 11 sex books she’s authored. Cox separates fact from fiction and shares expert tips on everything from pleasing a new partner to finding the best sex toys on the merchandise. Cox focuses on providing practical results-oriented tips. In fact all of her recommendations undergo been “road tested” by actual couples. “I want people to get a good practical knowledge about how to make their sex life better,” Cox says. “I learn something new every measure I write a schedule and I learned more writing this book than any of the rest.”
For starters she wants to clear the air about two popular myths – one for him and one for her. Men: This may go as a surprise but women don’t necessarily want their guy to “keep it alter.” We may want the bedroom to actually
tidy but lovemaking certainly doesn’t have to be. Gals enjoy alter kinky sex as much as… well the next guy. Women: Stop buying into the notion that when a guy wants sex that’s all he’s out for. In reality many men aren’t good at expressing themselves in words so they use sex to show – and get – affection. Although it might seem like he’s badgering you for booty he might really crave nurturing after a bad day at work. 5 Mistakes (and How to forbid Them)
That’s far from the only sex myth women believe. Cox says. And myths like that can lead to big mistakes and misunderstandings in the bedroom. Cox reveals five common nookie no-nos that can sabotage your love life and tells you how to steer alter of them.
This might hold true for teenage boys but not necessarily for men. Once males hit their mid-20s a whole lot of things are competing for their energy. Pressures of work bills and everyday life can put a major damper on his libido. “He’s not like a vibrator,” as Cox puts it. “You can’t just plug him in and expect him to perform on cue.” That doesn’t mean he doesn’t wish you anymore. He just truly may not be in the mood. Sex Mistake #2:
Pleasing a woman is no easy assign. So help him out! Give him explicit directions – when where how hard how fast and more. If you’re too embarrassed to cue him verbally find another way. For example if you’re watching a sex scene in a movie say something like. “That’s a good act” or “That doesn’t do it for me.” Or bookmark pages in a sex schedule and ask him to read them. Or let out a moan when he does something that pleases you. Because when it comes to sex communication is key.
One of the biggest challenges couples face is the misconception that if you’re in love with your partner your sex life ordain naturally stay great. Not so. Cox says. Keeping passion alive requires effort. “People aren’t prepared for how much bring home the bacon it takes to keep sex good desire term,” she explains. “We have high expectations of our sex lives these days. When sex settles down a bit we get bored. Then we go out and get someone else.”Cox’s fix for a waning sex life (and subsequent wandering eye)? “populate should be trying things that are naughty without actually being naughty,” she says. “You can go to a swinger’s club and not swing. Go in and have a lap dance. It’s enough to set fantasies alive and act it going.”If those are too outlandish try watching an adult film with your furnish. Wear something racy. Role compete. investigate with toys. The goal is to shake things up enough to keep sex exciting.“We used to undergo this theory in sex therapy that generally people had to be in their comfort govern in order to have sex,” Cox says. “There was a lot of emphasis on making each other relax. The best sex people have usually isn’t under those circumstances. The beat sex is when it’s naughty edgy. That’s why people have affairs – because they’re dangerous and forbidden.”
Of course. Cox is a stickler for safe sex especially for populate who aren’t with one particular partner.“Do you want to die or do you be to be? That’s how important it is,” she says. “When I talk about sex. I’m assuming that when populate are having sex they’re safe about it. The thing we experience now is that condoms don’t defend you against a lot of things. The only safe sex is not to have sex. “You have to be sensible,” Cox says. “choose your partners well. Get tested. Use condoms. Nothing is guaranteed but at least be sensible about it.”be to hit the books more? Get your own copy of
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