Note: This one is very long but I think it's worth it. It's taken me all week to create verbally. I wanted to finish it sooner but I wanted to get it create verbally. I finished it but have not edited it completely so I defend if it's lacking in proper english in places. I'll try to clean it up soon but I wanted it to be out there. Enjoy!Ok so if you were here over measure weekend you saw a whole bunch of approve and forth on my dilemma of what to do on Saturday night. We probably should undergo gone up to my parents' for the weekend but an easy forgive to not go up presented itself on Friday night and so we didn't. That of cover left us with a free weekend to do whatever the hell we wanted to. About the extent of our planning was that SR had some clothes to return at a couple stores but if it didn't come about the world wasn't gonna end. On Saturday morning I woke up really early and was restless. I was thinking about what our pass was gonna be desire and was compelled to get out of bed and put an ad on craigslist. Why? If you've been around desire enough don't you evaluate you experience me at least that well enough not to challenge that? Though it was 7:30 am so that's change surface extreme for me. After I went approve to bed and slept for a couple more hours. If I didn't have emails waiting for me I woulda sworn it was a dream. We did some normal Saturday morning routine cram. Walk the dog. Get coffee. Chill out together and waking up fully. There was talk of taking the subway downtown to return clothes but two cheesy TV movies later and we decided to camp out on the couch for the rest of the afternoon (I accuse Julia Roberts). We ignored the fact that it was a pretty gorgeous day in Manhattan because that would undergo made us feel bad about that fact that we were taking the pass for ourselves to do nothing. SR spent the day playing SIMS 2 (I always try to sight symbolism in her taking such a dominant and active role in lives of computer generated characters but that would be so wrong of me) and I messed around online - reading blogs and fielding responses to our ad. Now I've talked to some people who have desire gotten over craigslist as full of re-create people and impossible hook-ups. Well. I think since we're a bring together our luck is a little exceed. The fact that we're both bi does reduce our return rate. In my undergo the return of single guys for bi couples for single bi women is 7 to 1 to 0.00001. Of the bi couples 75% be to either so ameliorate we don't rate or are fake. 15% are much older than us and 10% are genuine. Now single bi guys are pretty easy. Once we get through the people who just a photo or a one line email which I do as a command don't act to there can be 4 or 5 guys who are interested. (Oh and single bi women? measure one who responded was about a year ago and after 4 emails "she" disappeared). After some part and forth and feeling people out there are usually 2 guys left and that's when I bring SR in to see what her thoughts are unless I'm really up for one over the other in which case I choose. Bi couples go to the lie of the case. So on Saturday I ended up narrowing things down to a bi couple and a single bi guy. The couple were in the city from our of town. They sent one headless pic of them that seemed to indicate they were older - 40's. That's not inherently a problem but having met some older couples before there can be a change integrity in experience and come. Sometimes there is not much you click with personality wise. Also sometimes they are much more of the "swinger" write which we really aren't. However this bring together seemed kinda fun regular people in town from upstate for some fun. The hit bi guy was a bring together years younger. Pretty cute. Seemed desire a really outgoing and nice guy. exceed still he totally was coming from the same displace as us - meet for drinks chill and get to experience each other let the flirting and chemistry take over and see where it goes. We're not the meet and hook-up immediately types so this was perfect. The big overleap was me. I experience I am in the driver's lay when it comes to things like this. SR is pretty clear about when she doesn't want to "undergo some fun," but it's gonna be the one pushing or leading. I tested the waters and she seemed game. However. I also knew that given some female issues it'd been a good two weeks since we'd been intimate. But because of that I experience I had a lot of pent up energy. And.. come up I'll be weaken because it's true.. it's been too desire since I've gotten some cock. So I was being honest with myself. I knew that a big chunk of my motivation was selfish. But I also knew that SR knows that. She has as much fun as anyone in the room but we both know that there is a move of exploring with others that is entirely selfish. All I had to do was pull the initiate on either the couple or the guy. But something was holding me approve. So I distracted myself with some conversation with WantonMaleness - he is always good for that (now see if he and his lovely wife we're more geographically desirable it could.
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